Comments on: An education http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459 "Saving Love Lives The World Over!" Thu, 23 May 2013 02:58:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: BG http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459&cpage=1#comment-60276 BG Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:52:44 +0000 http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459#comment-60276 Oh Thomas! That is a perfect, and distressing, example of the double standard i'm talking about: you got "cool" points, she got "snide comments." You should know that ultimately it's not your fault. Everyone should be able to carefully, thoughtfully, respectfully explore sexual feelings without fear of this kind of repercussion. I'm sorry it turned out this way, and I'm sorry you've felt bad for this long. At some level, I'm sure Ashley knows it wasn't your fault, either. Thank you for being so candid here. Oh Thomas! That is a perfect, and distressing, example of the double standard i’m talking about: you got “cool” points, she got “snide comments.” You should know that ultimately it’s not your fault. Everyone should be able to carefully, thoughtfully, respectfully explore sexual feelings without fear of this kind of repercussion. I’m sorry it turned out this way, and I’m sorry you’ve felt bad for this long. At some level, I’m sure Ashley knows it wasn’t your fault, either. Thank you for being so candid here.

]]> By: Thomas http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459&cpage=1#comment-60275 Thomas Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:39:38 +0000 http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459#comment-60275 I'm sorry as a man I have helped (by accident) this happen once I really liked this girl in 8th grade and we ended up getting touchy and some others saw we didn't know but the next day the others did and everyone thought I was cool but muttered snide comments as they passed her in the hall and when we walked together to class later my "friend" asked y I was walking with the slut I flipped out on him and tried to get people to stop calling her disgraceful downing names but they wouldn't eventually she quit talking to me and I felt so bad I knew it was my falt and it followed her trough high school please understand that not all guys are trying to make it turn out that way people that see it take it the wrong way and run with it u don't know how much it hurt knowing that the first girl I really had feelings for had a bad rep cause I wanted to feel her up Ashley I'm so sorry and I hope someday we will talk and I can find away to show you that I am sorry I’m sorry as a man I have helped (by accident) this happen once I really liked this girl in 8th grade and we ended up getting touchy and some others saw we didn’t know but the next day the others did and everyone thought I was cool but muttered snide comments as they passed her in the hall and when we walked together to class later my “friend” asked y I was walking with the slut I flipped out on him and tried to get people to stop calling her disgraceful downing names but they wouldn’t eventually she quit talking to me and I felt so bad I knew it was my falt and it followed her trough high school please understand that not all guys are trying to make it turn out that way people that see it take it the wrong way and run with it u don’t know how much it hurt knowing that the first girl I really had feelings for had a bad rep cause I wanted to feel her up

Ashley I’m so sorry and I hope someday we will talk and I can find away to show you that I am sorry

]]> By: BG http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459&cpage=1#comment-54183 BG Wed, 18 Aug 2010 09:55:15 +0000 http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459#comment-54183 @Sianna -- Maybe yes, maybe no. THing is, it's not so much about Mr. Handsy Groperson himself as it is about a whole system where girls get blamed/defamed for what boys do (or for what girls and boys do together). See here: http://www.breakupgirl.net/advice/980223/980223.html @Sianna — Maybe yes, maybe no. THing is, it’s not so much about Mr. Handsy Groperson himself as it is about a whole system where girls get blamed/defamed for what boys do (or for what girls and boys do together). See here: http://www.breakupgirl.net/advice/980223/980223.html

]]> By: Sianna http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459&cpage=1#comment-54181 Sianna Wed, 18 Aug 2010 09:48:50 +0000 http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459#comment-54181 Doesn't he have Dignity?? Doesn’t he have Dignity??

]]> By: karen http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459&cpage=1#comment-52373 karen Sat, 31 Jul 2010 14:59:05 +0000 http://www.breakupgirl.net/?p=4459#comment-52373 The situation seems a bit strange. I personally would have done other things to make him stop, and possibly to embarass him. He is being a jerk and not a gentleman. It was just like he was trying to see how far he could go. Ick. The situation seems a bit strange. I personally would have done other things to make him stop, and possibly to embarass him. He is being a jerk and not a gentleman. It was just like he was trying to see how far he could go.

Ick.

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