I am from Central America, I need an advice for my situation with a man. I have 2 years as a separated woman and getting divorce. He has 5 months as a separated man from his second marriage. We go out on weekends when he has a time free. He told me doesn´t want a relationship, because of his situation. In the future I would like to get a boyfriend or a friend and lover. We both know that his process will take a long time, I like him and he is a very nice guy, he said me “I like you and you are a wonderful woman”, I proposed him that while I am alone we can get together sometimes. My doubt is: how can I keep out of falling in love with him? Thank you and regards, Gaby
So sorry to hear you’ve got a problem on your hands. Unfortunately, as we note here — http://www.breakupgirl.net/?page_id=2 — I am not able to answer new questions via my former Breakup Girl advice column or this blog. That’s the bad news. The good news is, I am able to answer them via my advice column over at MSN.com (please email: firstname.lastname@example.org). As with any advice column, I cannot answer every question submitted, of course, but I honestly do my best. In the meantime, please try searching or browsing the BG advice archives (http://www.breakupgirl.net/advice/index.html) for another answer that may touch on your question — and do enjoy the rest of the site!
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