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October 3, 2011

This week at Happen: I’m insecure about my body

Filed under: Advice — posted by Breakup Girl @ 9:17 am

MSN.com, Match.com, HappenMagazine.com: they’re in a healthy and satisfying 3-way relationship. Meaning that you can find MSN/Match.com’s “Ask Lynn” columns –penned by BG’s alter ego — over at Happen now as well.

This week Lynn responds to a Jealous Girl whose boyfriend recently commented on the attractiveness of a friend of hers at a party before they started dating.

Over the three years that my boyfriend and I have been together, I’ve managed to put [30 pounds] on. I am feeling insecure about myself right now, and when he told me about his initial attraction to my friend before we met, it made me feel jealous and hurt my feelings.

Should boyfriends be finding other women attractive? How should Jealous Girl deal with her insecurity? Read the full letter at Happen Magazine, then post your own thoughts below!


  1. Im a male, But just because he just wants to be friends you shouldn’t let it bother you, i do feel your pain even as a male. but always remember, your still young no matter what age you are :)

    And about that 30 pounds, Weight doesn’t matter in realtionships real gents dont care about that, we want someone to talk to when we are down, a sholder to cry on, etc.

    Im not sure if i helped or not but i do wish you the best of luck BreakUpGirl.

    -A Fan Of Lynn- :)

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