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Dear Breakup Girl,
My ex and I broke up because he could not handle my past. He still want to
be friends because he can't find a girlfriend or any other females that like
to the same things I do (dirt bike racing, hunting, fishing, sailing, scuba
diving, dancing, club hopping etc.). I told him any woman that likes to do all
this will have a past or she will be pretty boring.
I still care about and like to do these things with him, but when he starts
to talk about the new woman in his life and he knows he can never tell them
about me it really hurts. He says there is no way we will ever get back as lovers,
but he still calls me every day even when I am out of town. Should I just tell
him to leave me alone or what?
Couldn't handle your past?! I just think he couldn't keep
up! Damn, girl. You're not just a date, you're an adventure.
Now. Sometime between hobbies,
check out what BG has to say about "double
standards" and the people who impose
them. You're clearly a babe and a half; you do not need an Activity Partner
who can appreciate all the things you do, but not all the things you did. Just
ask him to stop practicing his extreme calling with your phone, and rest assured
that you'll find someone who sees you as the exciting dream girl/vacation you
Oh, don't worry; "rest assured" is figure of
speech. You don't have to, like, RESTrest.
"My boyfriend's family is close...too