A Special BG FYI
Ladies, listen up: thus spake an actual guy.
Dear Breakup Girl,
I was reading your advice to Jennie, the girl who wanted to know how to let
guys know she was interested in them. You gave a few suggestions. The first two
were good, but then you suggested that she ask a guy to join her and her
friends for a movie. As a guy, I would assume that a woman who asked me to join
her and her friends, wanted to JUST BE FRIENDS. Women frequently try to send
messages to men that the men just won't get. There are, however, some subtle
ways of communicating that I think are effective. One of the best, simplest and
nearly guaranteed rejection-free ways a woman can express interest is through
touch. Touch the guy on the arm, etc. As a guy, this not only gets the message
across to me, it's very nice AND it makes me feel a lot more comfortable with
that woman, making it easier to propose future get-togethers.
Thanks, Kevin! Good call.