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Dear Breakup Girl,
How do you comfort your best friend when her live-in boyfriend dumped her after seven years?
--Confused

Dear Confused,
Bless your heart for asking. But you should really ask her: What do you need? What can I get for you? Do you want to talk about it, or do you want some distraction? When should I just leave you alone? Would you like a spoon for that? Don't tell her you know what she's going through; don't offer unsolicited analyses of "what went wrong;" don't go out with her boyfriend. Let her call the shots -- just do your best to let her know that you, unlike certain people, will always be there for her.
Love,
Breakup Girl

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