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Dear Breakup Girl,

I'm a young professional woman establishing my career and I've been through enough relationships (good and bad) in the past. Now, I feel uninterested in the dating scene or having a boyfriend at all. I would so much prefer to simply have "lovers" available at a congenial convenience. Many of my friends think I'm being immoral or am in a weird state of relationship denial when I simply have no desire for a heavy emotional commitment. What are your thoughts on this situation? Am I wanting to have my cake and eat it too?

-- Single and Happy

Dear Single and Happy,

Read Breakup Girl Meets Miss Fling. It's all about informed consent. If congenial convenience is what he wants -- and, truly, what you want, then fine. But otherwise -- as in, if an avoidable heartbreak occurs -- it's tacky.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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