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Dear Breakup Girl,

I can seem to meet men only in the fall or winter of each year and they never, ever last past three months (into the New Year). This has happened to me with almost all of my potential relationships -- the ones that I thought would last. I try to find men in the spring, but my aura must be in hibernation. Is having this three-month limitation normal and what can I do to curb it?

-- Clueless


Dear Clueless,

I'm thinking that sometime maybe in early February, your relationship sees its shadow and thus decides it's gonna last -- for only about six more weeks. Other than that, I can't really account for the particular seasonal patterns in your relationship almanac, but I will say that three months does seem to be the normal human relationship gestation period. For some reason, that's as long as it generally takes to get to know someone well enough to decide that that's, well, enough. If you need proof that it's not just you, let's just say you wouldn't believe how many letters I get that start off just like the next few do.

So there's really nothing for you to "do" to "curb" your tendency. It's more about the mysterious internal rhythm of relationships than it is about your, um, "aura." But listen, Clueless, spring is almost here. Don't let this hibernation thing become a self-fulfilling forecast.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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