Dear Breakup Girl,
I recently had a new roommate move into my house. What had recently been a
household of girls has now undergone some testosterone revamping. When this guy
moved in I thought nothing of him, but now I'm finding myself oddly attracted
and I think he's into me to. What should I do, four months to go and I don't
know if I should tell him or keep it to myself and forget him. Help me!
-- Romancing Roomie
Living together is generally something people do after
they've made a commitment. In your case, play it safe. I wouldn't want
something to be over before it even begins; when your ex is your roommate, all
of a sudden those toothpaste trails s/he leaves aren't so "adorable"
anymore. Savor the crush -- four months isn't that long -- and when he moves
out, then you can consider how to move in.