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Dear Breakup Girl,

I have recently found out that I WAS (is the key word) dating a recently married man for 4 months. I can't help but entertain the thought of somehow letting the cat out of the bag and exposing this jerk. I noticed that this subject was just addressed on another site), and was wondering what your take would be on the following advise that was guaranteed to shrink the libido of the married ex? It stated that one should call the guy at work and tell him that you've written a 3 page tell-all letter to his lovely wife and then invite him to convince you not to send it. After he's sputtered, pleaded and wet himself, sigh and say,"That was moving, but I have to get to the post office. Take care." Then, sit back and know that this guy's every move would be fraught with panic. He would end up crying,"Why me?" instead of the one who was lied to. I always value your advice and am interested in what you think.

--GingerAil

Dear Ginger,

Here's what I think: don't even think about it. No, scratch that. Do think about it. Just don't do it.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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