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Dear Breakup Girl,

I'm a single guy in my mid-twenties. I've been seeing this girl for several months, and everything's been fine until lately. See, she's my boss -- mid-thirties, recently divorced (about a year ago).

I know she's probably just using me, but that's okay by me when we're not at the office. But lately she's been wanting to get, er, frisky...at the office, during work hours. That's where I draw the line. We've always been good about keeping business and pleasure separate up until now, but I'm afraid of getting busted in the act and ruining my reputation at work. But I'm afraid if I break it off with her, she'll trash my career. What should I do?

-- Jake in Jacksonville

Dear Jake,

You're right; getting "frisky" at the office will not put you on the short list for Employee of the Month. Then again, neither will dumping your boss.

Oh, Jake, what were you thinking?! See, you guys, that's why I'm telling you that whatever you pursue at the office has to hold promise of an Actual Relationship, not just Adult Xeroxing.

Bail, bail, bail. And pray that she doesn't retaliate. If you do wind up having to leave, well, let's just say that BG is not convinced that you had wholesome, promising growith opportunities at Disclosure, Inc. in the first place. Also, remember that if you interview elsewhere, you're going to have to tell them why you left your previous job. I'd fib.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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