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January 26, 2010

Women re V-day: more “meh” than they say?

Filed under: Holiday — posted by Kristine @ 11:45 am

Over at YourTango.com’s Love Buzz, blogger Melissa Noble polled 50 men to find out how many of them know the actual date of Valentine’s Day, which is, I guess, a slightly bigger stumper than “Who’s buried in Grant’s Tomb?”. For the results, just read her post’s curiously-punctuated title:  “20% of Men Don’t Know The Date of Valentine’s Day Which means 80 percent of men DO know the date of Valentine’s Day. Whew.”

Despite being taught the necessity of buying and exchanging Valentine’s Day cards (often in bulk) from pre-school on, I have to admit…I have at times, well, forgotten Valentine’s Day. Not very ladylike behavior, I suppose, as Noble writes: “Most women we know either relish or dread February 14th.” But…really? Women are that fixated on Valentine’s Day? And same-sex couples…well, never mind them, I guess? Or, beyond all that, is it really so black and white (and red all over)?  Is there room to observe it our own way, because hey, why not, it’s here, it could be nice, without making such a giant cuckoo deal?

I mean, my college crush and I thought ourselves so evolved as to be post-Valentine’s Day. We decided no cards, presents or even candied hearts. Instead we sat in a smoky café with our friends, reading Kierkegaard out loud, dressed in black, sipping lattes. At the time, it was perfect. He loved it. I loved it. There were no false expectations. Now, the odds that I’ll observe the holiday that way today are about the same as that of Hallmark coming out with a card criticizing 19th-century Hegelianism and celebrating the priority of concrete human reality over abstract thinking, but still. It was fun.

So tell us: What are some ways you’ve observed, ignored, or something in between, Valentine’s Day? That is, assuming you even knew the date. 😉


  1. we plan on just going out to dinner at a regular restuurant, not one with a fancy schmancy menu, that is plenty good enough for me. no flowers, chocolates. WE both agree its another made up holiday meant to put pressure on both men and women to BUY stuff, who wins? the companies. no profit I will be giving them. :)

    Comment by Karen — January 26, 2010 @ 2:38 pm

  2. we’re going out to eat at a non themed resturaunt, we’ve decided its a made up holiday and we will not let the companies profit from it. :)

    Comment by Karen — January 26, 2010 @ 2:39 pm

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  5. I think that the best Valentine’s Days that I had were with my friends. We would go out, have a drink and just laugh. When you’re in a relationship or married, all you do is go to dinner and although it’s nice, it’s really same stuff every day. I just read a funny Valentine’s story about a woman who’s husband went from being Mr. Romance to not so romantic. If you want to read it, you can go to http://www.powderroomgraffiti.com/get-it/

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