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February 24, 2010

The geeky case for “older women”

Filed under: Psychology, pop culture — posted by Amy @ 6:32 pm

What a rollercoaster of emotions we’re feeling at BG today. We found this blog entry via Wired from OK Cupid, noting a bias in their dating pool against women of a certain age (”a certain age” being a year or two older than you are, but whatever).

The good: It’s a veritable candy store of charts, graphs, a javascript widget (ooh! shiny!), and the like. Plus, the blogger, Christian, makes his case enthusiastically, circling the ages 30-45 and labeling it the “Zone of Greatness.” Plus, he’s done extensive research (statistical research, you naughty-minded harlots) to support the thesis that older women are more sexually willing, open-minded, and hotsy totsy. Sure, in an ideal world he’d be all “and they have the most beautiful minds!” but given that we’re talking about a dating site, we have to assume a certain meat-market mentality. And how!

Plus, that’s only part of his picture. And with phrases like this:

There are two operative stereotypes of older single women: the sad-sack (à la Bridget Jones) and the “cougar” (à la Samantha from Sex In The City) and both, like all stereotypes, are reductionist and stupid and I’ve tried to avoid them. I hesitated beginning my case for older women with something about their sexuality, like I did in Exhibit A, because that territory borders right on cougar country. But the evidence there was too compelling to ignore.

Christian reveals himself to be a FOBG in a BW (big way). We luuurve him.

Plus, the comments section speaks well of OK Cupid users.

So why the roller coaster? The original premise. Like the one bad review in a sea of raves, we keep mulling it over and wondering if all the blog posts in the world will knock any sense into unwilling minds. What do you think?

3 Comments »

  1. [...] Amy noted earlier, Christian at OK Cupid’s blog recently found, using all sorts of lovely charts and graphs, [...]

    Pingback by Breakup Girl » Just because I’m 32 doesn’t mean I want babies with you — February 26, 2010 @ 8:35 am

  2. Mary was my boss in a hospital. She is attractive and smart. So I asked her out on a date. She said I cant go out with you because I am married. So I asked again. You are married to a lazy guy who does not work. I mean you have 2 teenage kids. She kind of agreed with some of what I was sdaying but then said how about hospital policy about bosses and ones below her status/not suppose to date. I said-look Mary I have liked you for a long time now and kept it to myself. I just wanted to go out be free and have a good time/have you ever thought about doing the same thing?

    Comment by Thomas Ensminger — March 24, 2010 @ 6:30 pm

  3. Everyone loves a MILF, right guys? There’s just something about older ladies that is just such a turn on.

    Comment by MILF — April 13, 2010 @ 11:17 pm

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