You go BG. I have never understood the whole ultimatum thing. So many girls I know did the whole, “If you don’t ask me to marry you by such-and-such then I’m breaking up with you.” I’d say, “Why in the world would a girl want to marry someone who had to be coerced? He should be willing to crawl over broken glass to marry you.” Then they’d inevitably tell me that if women waited for men to ask they’d be waiting forever… men are children who don’t know their own minds, they have cold feet, etc.
Me, I don’t want a baby, a coward, or someone who has to be roped and tied to want to marry me. It’s sad that so many women take this route. It’s not respectful to themselves — nor to men.